Happy Friday, my fellow golf and fitness enthusiast. If youâre like me and steering clear of the booze for a while, this is the hardest part of the week to turn down cold suds. BUT, we will win.
Today, weâre talking âslow ân steadyâ. And more specifically not jumping in the deep end of the pool with a new diet, fitness, or any overnight, life-altering program.
And something dawned on me this morning after a chat I had with our co-founder, Ryan.
Up until five or so years ago (everything always seems like it was 5 years ago:), he really struggled with his weight.
Depending on when you talked to him, he could be 180 or 195 lbs. I remember a year that he gained 15 lbs from deer season (Nov. 15th) to New Yearâs â about 45 days. And that fluctuation repeated itself for well over a decade.
He has always been very active, but he loves going out, and he loves his craft beer. Of course, that craft beer turns into eating like a garbage can, which adds to the weight gain.
Now, for the last five years, he has become a master at staying at his comfortable weight. He is within 2 lbs of 175 at all times. Heâs hesitant to use the word âeffortlessâ because itâs so damn hype-ey, but he has it figured out.
Hereâs the kicker…
He would NEVER recommend what he does to anybody…if theyâre just starting.
Hereâs why…over the years, he has slowly built habits that keep him in control.
I cannot stress enough that you should NOT start doing this today, but I want to illustrate the point.
Hereâs what he does to maintain his weight:
- WALKING: Monday thru Friday, walks the dog every morning with his wife Kendra for an hour after he drops the kids off at school. Sunday takes a longer walk.
- DAILY MOTION: Takes 5-7 minutes every day right after lunch.
- STRENGTH TRAINING: M-W-F lifts weights for 45 minutes before dinner.
- STATIONARY BIKE: Monday-Thursday, instead of plopping down on the couch to watch the boob tube, his bike is on a stand in the basement so he can watch TV and do a 30-minute casual ride.
- NUTRITION: Monday thru Friday, doesnât eat until noon, stops eating at 8pm, and eats clean (nothing processed). Saturday and Sunday, letâs himself go, but doesnât go totally nuts.
- BOOZE: Monday thru Friday afternoon, doesnât have a drop. Friday night and Saturday, he drinks like a fish. Sundays, heâll usually have just a few beers unless something is going on, in which case, heâll get after it.
- GENERALLY ACTIVE: Coaches soccer, loves working in the yard, will shoot hoops in the driveway with the kids, is always farting around the house, etc.
If it seems like a lot, it is. Iâm not sure Iâve met a person with a more severe case of FOMO.
So, heâs built sustainable habits that allow him to cut loose on the weekends, yet still stay at the weight where he is comfortable.
If he fixed #4 and #5 on the weekends, I think heâd be pretty shredded.
As a matter of fact, I got a text from him this morning that he lost 2lbs last week â he didnât have a drop of booze.
I also got a text from him earlier in the week, that heâd never do that again:)
So, why do I bring this up?
Lasting, life-long changes donât happen overnight. They happen one small step at a time.
It pains me when I hear guys tell me theyâre gonna stop eating carbs, theyâre gonna start running (even though they donât like it), or any drastic, overnight lifestyle change.
Iâve seen it too many times. Heck, Iâve done it too many times. Unless you plan on doing whatever program youâre subscribing to for the rest of your life, it ainât gonna work.
It took Ryan a long time to dial in his âprogramâ. He found things he liked that helped, then kept adding one of top of the other.
After years of trial and error, here is where Ryan said he was start if he had to do it all over again:
The biggest mistake I kept making over and over was trying to do to much too quickly because I wanted to get to my goal as fast as humanly possible. When I finally started treating weight loss and fitness like a marathon instead of a sprint â thatâs when it all changed.
If I had to start today, knowing what I know, I would do two things:
First, do the Daily Motion (itâs free) every day. Itâs so simple, but takes away all of the creaking and cracking. And just makes your body feel good.
Second, I would do either weight or bodyweight training for 20 minutes, at least 3 times per week. I got my hands on a follow-along DVD set years ago that helped me build that habit. All the workouts were about 20 minutes, and the instructor would constantly repeat, âThis is your life. Everybody has 20 minutes a day for themselves.â
It was all bodyweight and the exercises had nothing to do with golf, but that got me into the routine of working out. From there, I just kept wanting to do more and more. It does start to get addictive.
So, there you have it. A guy who has been there and done that â thatâs where he would start.
Sounds like a great plan to me.
Your #1 Fan,
Jeff Pelizzaro
PS â So, that DVD set of 20-minute workouts that set Ryan down the strength training path was a big inspiration for us in creating Micro Workoutsâą – Total Body.
The exercises and moves in the DVDs werenât golf-specific, so it got us thinking, âWhat if we could get more guys started with smaller time commitments AND still help improve their golf?â
And so it was born: Micro Workoutsâą – Total Body.
I almost forgot…for a limited time weâre giving away the Golferâs Warm-Up Blueprint with the Micro Workouts.
It really doesnât make any sense because the Micro Workouts are $47, and the Warm-Up Blueprint is normally $67. Itâs bass-ackwards, but we want to get as many of our Crew going as we can:)
Hope to see you on the inside.