Happy Wednesday – I accidentally just typed âThursdayâ, so letâs take a step back and refocus.
So yesterday, we got started talking about how we suck at building habits.
Seriously, we know what we need to do to get into shape and live a healthy life, so why is it so damn hard to keep doing it longer than a few days or weeks?
Hereâs a quick recap of some of the most popular offenders:
- We try to change too much too soon
- We get impatient the results donât come quickly enough
- We slip up when life gets in the way
- We start the cycle over again
I challenged you yesterday to break out of your bad habits by answering this question…
What is your why?
Because if you donât know why youâre doing it, youâve already lost.
If youâre here because you think you âshouldâ get into shape, youâre going to fail as soon as life gets in the way.
If youâre dragging yourself to the gym, kicking and screaming, because you think you âshouldâ run on the treadmill even though you hate jogging (like me), youâre toast.
As youâre going through the habits you want to build, make the habit part of a BIGGER cause thatâs worth the struggle.
And be honest with yourself.
If youâre going to the gym because thereâs a smoke-show at work you want to date, then make that your why. Donât BS yourself and be a woke joke by crafting some politically correct, ânobleâ story that isnât true.
Youâre not just working out, youâre building a body that youâre not ashamed of so your wife canât keep her hands off you.
Youâre not just learning to eat cleaner, youâre losing weight so those new Lululemon pants you got for Christmas will make your ass pop in front of the cart girl:)
Youâre not just moving your body, youâre moving everyday so you can beat the pants off of all of your buddies this golf season.
We all know we âshouldâ get into shape. I donât have to talk you into that. But, if that were enough, weâd all look and feel great.
Without your own BIG WHY, youâre just forcing yourself to do things you donât enjoy â and thatâll never last.
Tie your new habit to a greater cause, and your chance of success goes up exponentially.
Dig deep. Be selfish. And be honest.
Now, write it down.
Great.
Tomorrow, weâre going to dive into the exact steps to building healthy habits.
Your #1 Fan,
Jeff Pelizzaro
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